Have you ever felt that your life is in a rut and you’re just not sure what to do to feel better to live your dream, perhaps even to discover your dream then you is not alone?

Perhaps you feel you are expected to do something, be a wife, a father and so on. You might feel under pressure to succeed or guilty at not achieving or doing something. It makes you anxious and resentful that you aren’t being allowed to follow your dreams.

But who cares what others want you to do, are you not betraying yourself by not exploring your old dreams. Do people who really care about you want to hold you back? Many will have advice and something to say, but remember you are in charge and you get to say what is right for you. Stand up and walk out of your past, into that bright future.

So take a chance – invest in yourself where do you want to go.

A good start is to start living in the moment, actively choose each moment, remember what we want is fulfillment not a temporary moment of happiness. So it’s worth taking a moment to decide what are the things that are right for you. What is important what are your guiding principles? Do you feel that relationships are most important to you; perhaps you have always wanted to travel or change your job or career. By making conscious decisions you can move yourself step by step toward that goal.

Perhaps though you are unsure what it is that you want and so you need to spend some time listening to yourself. Really pay attention to that felt sense in yourself and notice what makes you happy and fulfilled. Perhaps you might want to try some things a class, voluntary work and similar experiences.

Don’t waste time, you only have one life and the time is limited so the longer you delay in getting started the less time you will have to enjoy the new you. Listen to the most important person in your life and take action today.

Make a difference today!